De-cember

I have learned in life that expansion meets you the moment you stand in your true frequency. This is where you embrace your authenticity fully and you feel connected with your truest self.

At the moment, it is the end of a cycle (for me, but I’m aware for many others too).

For those that don’t know me, I love numerology. I always had a thing with numbers in school, as they made more sense to me than words, lol. (I know, pretty wild, coming from a writer.) It’s more that I believe that you can’t influence numbers like you can words. With words, there are so many words and languages to explain a certain feeling, for example. But therefore, also so many opportunities to mis-read what has been said or felt. Yet with numbers, there is only one clear outcome or message possible. This is why I always enjoyed math so much more than any other topic in school. It was clear and could not exist in confusion. Maybe you didn’t understand the pattern or cycle to get to the answer, which could create confusion. But once you dove deep into finding out and figuring out the pattern and tools to use, the confusion dissolved and actually turned the horrible homework into fun. I know these are not common thoughts which you might not agree with. But yes, I’ve always been different.

Over the years, the universe started to communicate messages to me through (angel) numbers, and this is how my passion for/with numbers continued.

2025 has been a special year and is actually a completion year (2+0+2+5=9), as a 9-year cycle is ending. This means, in other words, everything that is not meant for your next chapter is currently dissolving.

Are you in a chapter where most plans are collapsing? People are leaving? Places that felt familiar no longer do? May I remind you and mostly reframe this feeling for you? Life right now may feel like it is taking things away. But, did you know, it is making space and room for the right things to arrive instead? Currently, you are not being punished, but actually being emptied. You’re finalizing one cycle and restarting a new one. Yes, this sounds way easier than it feels. But, trust me, if you feel like you’re floating in the air, between two worlds, wondering where to land, you are right where you’re meant to be. While your “old-cycle-self” is making room for your ‘”new-cycle-self,” trust the process, follow your intuition and flow with the wind.

As I have started talking about numerology, I would love to make the bridge to Chinese astrology too. Why? Because, for me, the messages I received this year were so on point that I know I can’t be the only one.

2025 was the Year of the Snake in Chinese astrology. 2025 stood for exposing the truth, false identities and illusions. The energy of the snake brought transparency, as everything you tried to ignore became unmasked.

My focus these final weeks of this year? To continue shedding and dissolving. If you feel like you’re falling apart, then I am here to remind you, you’re not alone, and you are actually falling together. You are falling into alignment and into your most authentic self.

2026 is the Year of the Horse, and the horse moves fast, free and fearless. So, prepare and make yourself light and bold for next year. Make it your clear intention that nothing false, fragile or fear-based can come with you into 2026. And simply believe in yourself.

My wish for you? May you use the rest of De-cember to De-clutter, De-tach, and De-lete anything that De-values your life.

Allow the flow of what feels good to you to guide you. Listen to your body, focus on balancing your nervous system, and open your mind up to new possibilities.

2026 is a big shift.

Make yourself ready!

Happy New You.